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Everything You Should Know About Dying

From the first questions to the hard facts — culture, the body, and what may come after.

Denisa Balušková · international edition, 2026

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In 2023, 61,619,925 people died in the world. The figure comes from the United Nations' World Population Prospects, and it's the most precise number we have on how the species dies. Behind that one line of a table are 61.6 million beds, 61.6 million last breaths, and hundreds of millions of people who lost someone close. A large share of those deaths happened in a hospital or care facility; a much smaller share happened at home, even though far more people say that's where they'd want to.

It is, in other words, one of the most common events that happen anywhere on earth. And yet it's an event almost nobody knows much about — not because the information doesn't exist, but because nobody reaches it before they need it, and by the time they need it, they have no strength left to look.

This book exists so that information is in one place, ahead of time.

It doesn't want to comfort you. Comfort that isn't grounded falls apart at the bedside within the first hour, and leaves anger behind it. It doesn't want to frighten you either — fear of death is mostly fear of the unknown, and the unknown shrinks when it's described.

It wants to describe. What happens to the body when the heart stops. Why the dying stop eating. What near-death-experience studies actually found, and what doesn't follow from them. What different cultures do with the dead. How death is registered and handled, step by step.

Three things that keep getting mixed up when people talk about death

The book keeps them consistently apart. It's the same rule throughout, and in Part III — on near-death experiences, reincarnation, and consciousness — it becomes the load-bearing axis you can use to tell which is which.

1 · Documented finding

Someone measured it, described the method, and the result can be reproduced. You can trust it independently of what anyone thinks it means.

2 · Interpretation

Someone claims the finding means this or that. A single finding often has several interpretations, and they're frequently incompatible with each other.

3 · Belief

Someone believes it — for religious, philosophical, or personal reasons. Belief isn't measurable by nature, and the book doesn't try to argue anyone out of it.

This distinction is easy to mistake for mockery. It isn't. It's the same rule that ranks supplements and drugs by strength of evidence in the other books in this series — just applied to questions that don't measure as easily.

One number that shows it in practice

2,060cardiac arrests in the AWARE I study
7prospective trials across four decades
0confirmed identifications of a hidden target

The AWARE I study (Resuscitation, 2014) followed 2,060 cardiac arrests across fifteen hospitals in the UK, US, and Austria between 2008 and 2012. Of the 330 patients who survived, 140 went through a first interview and 101 a second. Resuscitation rooms were fitted with 50 to 100 images placed on shelves visible only from above, near the ceiling — installed in the roughly 22% of arrests that happened where a shelf existed at all. Not one patient identified an image.

It's not an isolated result. Since the first attempt at Lutheran General Hospital in 1985, seven prospective trials — running through Hartford, Southampton, Morriston, the University of Virginia, and two AWARE studies spanning 2008 to 2020 — have tried the same basic design: place a target only a floating consciousness outside the body could see, then ask survivors what they saw. No controlled study has ever confirmed that anyone, during an out-of-body experience, saw a hidden target.

That isn't proof that nothing happens. It's exactly the kind of finding the book keeps separate from the interpretations usually attached to it.

"Proven to extend life by 30%." A sentence from another book in this series. It's true — for yeast. The same caution applies here, just aimed at consciousness and energy instead of supplements.

A world without religion? Death in secular societies

Across much of the developed world, formal religious affiliation has been falling for decades, and in some countries the majority no longer belongs to any church. Cremation has followed the same curve — in several European countries it's now the majority choice, and a growing share of those cremations happen with no ceremony at all: no funeral hall, no music, no words, no one present. And yet in the same secular societies, informal ritual hasn't disappeared — cemeteries still fill with candles and flowers on days set aside for the dead, lit by people who never go to church and don't believe in God.

One chapter is about exactly that contradiction — what happens to the need for ritual when the institutions that used to carry it fall away, and how little is actually known about it, even in the countries where it's furthest along.

Four parts

I · Death as culture — what we do with it

  1. The last taboo that isn't one
  2. What everyone else does
  3. A world without religion? Death in secular societies
  4. The dead don't fade the same way everywhere
  5. New paths

II · Hard physiology — what actually happens

  1. What "dead" actually means
  2. The last weeks, days, and hours
  3. The final few minutes
  4. What happens to the body afterward
  5. What people die of — and does it hurt?

III · What comes after — theory, belief, and what the science says

  1. Near-death experiences
  2. How neuroscience explains it — and where it runs out
  3. Reincarnation
  4. "We're energy, and energy can't be lost"
  5. Consciousness, and whether it could survive

IV · Practical — kept at the level that holds across countries

  1. Fear of death
  2. Grief
  3. What to arrange, and how to talk about it
  4. When someone dies
Length195 pages
Structure4 parts, 19 chapters
Also includedglossary, a note on sources and their reliability
FormatPDF, no DRM, no watermark

What this book isn't

It isn't medical advice. It isn't legal counsel — arrangements around dying and death are set by the law of the country you're in, and this book stays at the level of principles that hold across countries, not the paperwork of any one of them. And it isn't a book that claims to know what comes after death — if you're in the middle of an acute crisis right now, the book is not the right tool; a person is. Please reach out to a local crisis line or someone you trust.

The chapter on grief describes what happens to a person, it doesn't replace therapy. And in Part III, the book explicitly refuses to tell you what to believe — it only marks, for each claim, whether it's a finding, an interpretation, or a belief.


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Frequently asked questions

Is it a sad read?

In places, yes. The book doesn't avoid that, but it doesn't aim for it either — it wants to describe, not move you to tears. Most of the text is factual: numbers, mechanisms, history, cross-cultural comparison.

Do I need to believe in an afterlife to read this?

No. Part III describes what's known, what's claimed, and what's believed — and keeps those three apart. It doesn't decide for you which one to believe.

Is it suitable for someone who just lost someone?

The chapter on grief can help make sense of what's happening — but the book isn't crisis intervention. In the middle of a fresh, acute loss, talking to a person is usually better than reading a book.

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